Hello my name's wezley , I'm trying to raise money for my son's oscar funeral, he passed away new years eve after having a cardiac arrest on Christmas day due to medical negligence, the queen Elizabeth hospital in Woolwich UK ,( south east London ) used a adult breathing tube that cut my son's throat and made him bleed out , he went into cardiac arrest and his heart stopped for 12 mins , they told me they was calling the time of death because he wasn't responding to what they was doing , so I ran out the hospital crying my eyes out , once out side a Asian nurse grabbed me and said they had a pulse , , we got moved to evelina children hospital in London and on the way the ambulance crashed , once we arrived they gave him an emergency MRI scan and found he has anec ( a serious bleed on the brain ) after a fue hours his kidneys stopped working and had to go on dialysis, alot of steroids and fluids , he was starting to improve and his infections levels wear dropping , a therapist came around and shook Oscar because he had muscle making his breathing tube crackle ( during the day they used a suction tube ) but the night staff opted to shaking him that in turn made his bleed on the brain worse z on new year's eve they say after they shook him his vital signs went down and he passed away at 10;44 ,
Oscar has autism and loved everything about the world and life , he loved people and everyone who met him loved him !
We are trying to give him the send of he deserves but we are on benefits and financially stuffing since he passed and his money ( DLA ) for his autism have stopped , we got money from the government to help towards his funeral but this has just paid for his flowers and our cloths ( mum dad and 4 siblings ) , we would like to get him a horse and carriage to honour his short but amazing life ,
Every day with out him is killing me and I'm only a me to continue living my self because of the other children I would not be here today if it wasn't for them , Oscar was with me every second of every day of his life and never left my side