Help single mum with a surgery

Aim: Single mum, lost 50kg, now facing surgery I can’t fully afford. Any support, even kind words, would mean so much. Thank you, Sandra

Hi everyone,

I never imagined I’d be in a position to ask for help like this, but here I am — taking a deep breath and a leap of faith, trusting in the kindness of others.

As a single mother, every part of my journey has been about giving my all to my children and building a loving, stable home. My daughters are my whole world, and I wouldn’t trade anything for the joy of being their mum. But through the challenges of motherhood and years of putting myself last, I’ve lost a part of who I used to be — not just physically, but emotionally too.

Over the past few years, I’ve worked incredibly hard to lose over 50kg, determined to take back control of my health and my future. While I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished, the aftermath of that weight loss has been bittersweet. I’ve been left with sagging skin that affects my daily life, my confidence, and my ability to fully enjoy the progress I’ve made.

I’ve saved as much as I could — nearly £1,000 — and put down a deposit to secure a date and price for the first surgery, scheduled for October. I did this with hope and determination. But as life would have it, new challenges came up — with my daughter preparing for prom and college, and several unexpected expenses, I’ve realized I won’t be able to cover the full cost on my own by then, even though I continue to save as much as I can.

The first part of the surgery costs nearly £9,000, and I still have a long way to go. I’m committed to covering the second surgery on my own in the future, but right now, I’m asking for help to make this first, most crucial step possible. If I can’t raise the funds in time, I may need to postpone and risk losing the deposit — something I’m trying hard to avoid.

It’s been incredibly hard to ask for help. I know so many people are facing heartbreaking situations, and I’ve always tried to be someone who gives rather than asks. I’ve spent most of my life helping others however I could — often asking for nothing in return. Even when it meant being taken advantage of at times, I never stopped believing in kindness and in showing up for others. It’s simply who I am.

But this surgery isn’t about vanity — it’s about healing. It’s about finally feeling comfortable in my skin again and reclaiming the confidence that’s been missing for far too long.

If you feel moved to donate, or even offer a few kind words, please know how much it truly means to me. Every bit of support brings me one step closer to finishing this journey — not just physically, but emotionally.

And if there were ever a way I could repay the kindness — whether through time, help, or even financially down the line — I absolutely would. I don’t know if this platform allows that, but please know the gratitude in my heart is real and lasting.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading, for caring, and for being here.

With love and gratitude,

Sandra

Funding method

Keep what you raise – this project will receive all pledges made by 6th August 2025 at 7:38pm