Hello, my name is Gabriel.
For most of my life, I’ve lived in a dream-like state, struggling without knowing why. I’m an orphan, having lost my parents when I was just 7 years old. I’ve never had a close relationship with my family or friends, and for as long as I can remember, I’ve faced challenges with everything—relationships, work, and my mental health. Despite it all, I’ve always felt blessed in some way.
I’ve battled serious issues like alcohol dependence and long-term depression, even taking antidepressants that didn’t seem to help. For over three years, I was on a waiting list for an ADHD assessment. Little did I know that this diagnosis would change everything for me.
The Moment Everything Changed
At 45 years old, I was finally diagnosed with ADHD—a condition I’ve unknowingly lived with my entire life. With this diagnosis, I felt like I could finally begin healing. I stopped drinking and even got my driving license—a significant milestone that brought a sense of independence and hope.
However, on the same day I received my driving license, my life took another unexpected turn. Less than a month after my diagnosis, my wife asked me to leave our home. I had to walk away from her and my stepchildren after almost 11 years. While I don’t blame her entirely, as I was in a very dark place for years, this separation has left me heartbroken and lost.
A New Beginning, But I Need Help
Now, for the first time, I feel sharp, awake, and aware. I finally understand what has been wrong all my life, and I’m ready to turn things around. But the road ahead is steep. I've never been able to maintain a stable job and have no savings or social network to lean on. I don’t even have access to benefits at the moment.
I’m seeking support for urgent legal fees and to start rebuilding my life. I’m not asking for help with food or housing—I can survive that for a while. What I need right now is assistance with the legal battle ahead and the resources to find a stable job so I can stand on my own two feet.
I’m still waiting for medication due to a global shortage, which could take months. But in the meantime, watching others with ADHD share their experiences online has brought me a deep sense of belonging. For the first time in my life, I don’t feel like an outsider—I feel like I’ve found my community, my people.
How You Can Help
Anything you can offer will mean the world to me—whether it’s a small donation or even just a kind word of encouragement. Your positive thoughts and support will be like gold to me as I navigate this difficult time and work toward a better future.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story, and for any help you can provide. I’m grateful for your compassion.