This is a tricky one. On the one hand, one feels that asking for gifts is somewhat vulgar.
However, it is traditional. And one should always uphold tradition.
So, in the spirit of upholding tradition and for that reason solely we offer you the opportunity of contributing to our honeymoon educational trip fund. As some of you will already be aware, we intend to travel to a far flung part of the globe to sit on a beach and be generally be happy expedite the transference of educational and artistic knowledge to those less fortunate than ourselves.