After seven years, my wife left with her children (not mine, but I had been their only dad for seven years—I miss them dearly), our dog (words can't describe the loss), and all our furniture, leaving me with £28,000.00 of debt, an empty house, and a broken heart. The debt she accrued on finance and credit cards was left in exchange for not claiming half of the house, which I paid for solely. Now alone, struggling with mental health and financial burdens, I'm seeking support to clear this debt and rebuild my life.
To find relief from the financial burden, I've consolidated my debt into one loan, avoiding an IVA that would have cost me my job. Now, I pay £500 a month towards this debt, which hinders my ability to move forward and forces me to work continuously. I'm seeking anything to reduce the burden.
I'm struggling with my mental health and seeking help. I feel like I've lost everything and have no future, just living to pay off debt. Although it's a common situation, any help to reduce the debt will make a huge difference for me and help me move forward.