Help Make Parenthood Possible For Caring Couple

Dear Friends and New Friends,

We recently married in celebration, and to strengthen our commitment, connection, love and trust to one another.  Finding each other has been an incredible experience.

We would love to have a child but sadly have been unsuccessful during the past year due to fertility issues. We have been experiencing the highs and lows of the fertility journey together. The magic of sharing life everyday certainly makes that journey more enjoyable even during the very difficult times.

We have a lot of love to give to a child and a wonderful support network. We are very blessed to have so much love around us. We have been trying together now for over a year and recently had fertility tests done. Kerry has already had 5 miscarriages. It would seem we may struggle to conceive without IVF support at this time and time is running out. Hence why we are considering medical assistance, and the challenge it creates to afford it. 

We are looking to raise enough to help our dream come true of having our own family. We really need your help to fulfill this dream.

The amount we are requesting almost covers two rounds of IVF and we are covering the rest.

We appreciate your love and support at this time.

Thank you forever,

Kerry and Warren


Poem Kerry Wrote about her miscarriages.

   

The Unspoken Flesh

You are the unspoken

The unknown 

The god seed      

I am dressed in black  with a white Lilly in my palm
 

And I don’t have a  name for you, cos you had more to grow into  

and society mentions  little about, this sort of loss we go through.

You were not quite a  baby and not quite an egg,

yet I could imagine  your face, in my minds eye, in my head

There was no memorial to say good bye, though     

with no sign or no trace, no grave stone face.    

I placed your tiny  vessel in the forest on the moist moss

between two trees.

The one that represented him and the one that represented me.

I had hugged the small one whilst you grew inside

as I knew you were leaving me again this time.

That is where I placed some of your remains       

upon the earth, wetted with my blood of life.

You are the unspoken

The unknown. The god  seed.

I am dressed in black with a white Lilly in my palm

I am dressed in white  with blood rose on my cotton

I blamed my body,  something’s wrong,

for not being able to  hold you, 

safely in my womb,     

my womb became your  tomb,

before my body decided  to miscarry you.

Why did you go away  from me?

Maybe I am just not  worthy,

to be a mum, as mine  left me.

And I don’t have  much time,

my eggs are running  dry.     

And when I wake to the  silence of the silence I cry

No little voices to  fill the room

No sharing of care,  just emptiness to consume.

You are the unspoken

The unknown. The god seed.    

I am dressed in black  with a white Lilly in my palm

I am dressed in white  with blood rose on my cotton  

Im dressed in blue  with a purple iris in my sight

   

And does it matter how  small you were 

to give relevance to what I went through

acknowledgement that  you once were     

the potential of life  that I gave birth to

Now there’s empty  black matter in its place,     

but your the sparkle  in my night of heart ache

   

Before I lost you I  heard a voice,

reassuring me that this was your choice.     

Even though you left my body to move on

your soul has faced no harm.

You are the unspoken

The unknown. The god  seed.     

I am dressed in black with a white Lilly in my palm

I am dressed in white with a blood rose on my cotton

Im dressed in blue  with a purple iris in my eyes

I am dressed in green  with a bright red berry against chest

   

I do not have you to nurture or to hold near,

so instead, a new me  was re-birthed and revered.

Propelled into my own potentials.     

Our connection felt on other levels.

Your mission no longer a secret.

A stronger me, a  weaker me, a changed personality.

And one day I hope  that I can be, a true guardian of a sou

but for now it is just  me continuing this journey alone.

You are the unspoken flesh

The unknown. The god  seed.    

I am dressed in black  with a white Lilly in my palm

I am dressed in white  with a blood rose on my cotton

Im dressed in blue with a purple iris in my eyes

I am dressed in green  with a bright red berry against my chest  

I am dress in yellow,  with a sun-flower above my head,

to help light up your  pathway, as you travel